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My Shopping Addiction Rehab Program

Shopping is my thing. I love the thrill of the hunt, that feeling of discovery and the joy of a bargain. I find it satisfying in ways I can’t fully describe. I want to experience the feeling as often as possible. Shopper’s high is no joke. It’s real, it’s palpable, and it’s addictive.

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Shopping got me into a lot of trouble. In just 12 years I ran up more than $100,000 in consumer debt—most of it on credit cards. Eventually, all of it came crashing down and nearly took me with it. Thankfully, that crisis became the catalyst to turn my life around.

It took 13 years to repay all of the debt. I learned a lot about myself in the process but mostly that the satisfaction I got from shopping was short-lived. It was fake because it vanished in less time than it took me to get the stuff to the car. But that just set me up to do it again and again because the small bursts of joy I got from shopping were worth the pain that always followed.

Crazy I know, but absolutely true. I could so easily go back to my old ways, and that’s scary.

So, what keeps me on the straight and narrow? It’s you! You’re my shopping addiction rehab program. Paying off that monstrous debt and these past 28 years of writing, researching, and communicating with you on a daily basis have become the best maintenance program I could hope for.

And the best part? I get to use my shopping skills nearly every day, but now in a constructive way.

Take the email I got from Jeannine who asked simply, “What is the best inexpensive Bluetooth speaker?” Just like that, I flew into shopping mode—that thing I love to do because it brings me uncanny satisfaction.

But here’s the deal: I’m not shopping for myself. I’m not spending my money or creating a bit of debt. I’m researching for Jeannine and that frees me from all of the personal negative stuff. I get to experience the joys of shopping that I love so much without any of the remorse or regret, guilt or shame. That’s authentic, lasting satisfaction. I love my job.

I did go shopping for Jeannine and a few other readers whose requests showed up at about the same time.

A group of items on a table

1. Bluetooth speaker

Bluetooth and wireless speakers let you bring your favorite music, podcasts and audiobooks with you wherever you go, whether you’re out on a hike or in the kitchen doing dishes—without the need to use headphones or depend on the phone’s or iPad’s microscopic built-in speaker. My pick for the best inexpensive Bluetooth speaker is Anker SoundCore. This thing is amazing with 24-hour playtime, low distortion and superior sound.

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2. Stainless coffee mug

Coffee lovers are discriminating when it comes to both quantity and temperature of their favorite brew. Zojirushi Silky Black Stainless Steel 16-ounce Mug represents the gold standard. There is no finer. Retains heat so well it comes with a 5-year warranty on heat retention! And did I mention 16-ounces? No wonder this coffee mug has earned so many 5-star reviews. It’s that lovely

3. Kids electronic tablet

These days children start very young with electronic devices. The problem though is that kids are kids and most smartphones and tablets are too delicate to handle toddler abuse. With that in mind, my pick for your favorite little ones is Kids Amazon Fire Edition Tablet. This is the real deal—not a toy, but built like one because it is all but indestructible.

This tablet has a 7-inch screen, 16 GB, Wi-Fi and all of it surrounded by a kid-proof case then wrapped up in a 2-year worry-free guarantee. If it breaks for any reason, return it and you’ll get a free replacement no questions asked. Complete with front and rear cameras, best-in-class parental controls.

One year of Amazon FreeTime Unlimited gives access to 10,000 kid-friendly books, movies, TV shows, educational apps, and content from PBS Kids, Nickelodeon, Disney and more. Wow. I want one.

4. Fitbit Charge 3

This must be the gift of the year given all the people I know who are dying to get one. Worn, Fitbit Charge 3 continuously monitors heart pulse, calorie burn, and heart rate. 7-Day battery life. Automatically tracks how long and how well you sleep and even wakes you up with a silent vibrating alarm. Fitbit Charge 3 comes complete with GPS that allows you to see real-time stats when you run—things like pace and distance, all while on your wrist. It even displays the time, just like something from the olden days called a wristwatch. For sure, Fitbit is stylish, hip and cool.

5. Portable battery charger

Don’t you hate it when your phone or other device dies and you’re nowhere near an outlet? So did the creators of this amazing little RAVPower Portable Charger External Battery Power Bank. Just plug your device into it and you’ll get a super quick charge. About the size of an index card, this thing has a huge capacity. Colossal battery: 22000mAh capacity, a single charge powers an iPhone X 4.9 times, a Galaxy S8 4.4 times, or an iPad mini 4, 2.6 times. Two USB ports allow you to charge two devices at a time. 5.8A Output 3-Port (iSmart 2.0 USB Ports). Compatible with iPhone 11/Pro/Max/ 8/ X/XS, Samsung S10.

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  1. cat_tem says:

    I bought an Anker Sound Core Mini and it’s great for use in my car with my iPhone. It’s small and round and fits in the beverage holder that’s built into my console. It’s got enough sound to also take into my classroom when I want to play something for my students.

  2. Karen Fellenstein says:

    Good morning,

    I have 3 of the 5 items you mentioned above and I agree they are worth buying. Thanks for mentioning what the Bluetooth speaker can do, I was thinking of selling mine since we have an echo now, but forgot how versatile the Bluetooth speaker is. Especially when your not near an electrical outlet. Thanks for all the great information you provide every day.
    Merry Christmas,

  3. Denise Austin says:

    Hi Mary, Someone I love is a serious shopping addict and has been for many years, using it when she gets anxious or stressed. I know I cannot changer her, but how can I help her see it is a huge problem mentally and financially, and take steps to find a healthier solution? For me, it helped to shop online, filling the cart. Eventually something pulled me away from the computer. When I returned, I looked at the useless stuff and deleted the cart. Now I can delete the car before I leave! I’d appreciate other suggestions on how to cope.
    Thank you,

  4. Pat says:

    I love the hunt too but I use a few blogs that tell me where the deals are. Sometimes I don’t even leave my house and get it shipped to store online. Love it. Using codes and reward points and getting it free is even better. Just got some winter gloves for my brother for free after reward points and got a blanket for my other brother free with reward points. Love it. I even earned free points on the free items. How cool is that. I got a few things free at target and kohls too. I turned survey money into gift cards for xmas shopping this year. I can shop and hardly pay a thing. I am very careful to only buy what we can use though or gifts that can be used though.

  5. Miriam says:

    Mary, I too like shopping for others (even way more than I do for myself since it is minus the anxiety). I want to tell you about a coffee mug I think might beat your ‘gold standard’. It’s called Bubba, costs about $20 in Canada (so less in the U.S.). But wait – it gets better – Bubba keeps my coffee hot for ages – it’s still warm enough to drink several hours later AND the Bubba company offers a lifetime guarantee on their mugs. I know it’s true because I wrote to them that the rubber gasket in my lid had stretched which sometimes caused leaking (after several years) and they wrote back to say that they ‘wanted me to be happy with my product’ so they sent me a new one. Go figure – a company that actually stands behind their product.


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