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Discouraged? Maybe It’s Time to Lighten the Load That’s Weighing You Down

As flights go, it was ordinary. Still, the trip stands out in my memory as one of my all-time favorites. That’s because I traveled light.

I flew to Dallas in the morning, participated in a luncheon event, saw the sights in the afternoon, and returned home later that evening. It was so easy. No luggage, no baggage check, no carry-on, no umbrella, coat, or duffel bag. No computer or bag search. No straining to hoist all of that heavy stuff into the overhead compartment. I was unencumbered and carefree.

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The Weight That Wears Us Down

There’s something to be said about traveling in such a way. For serious cyclists, the difference between winning and losing can come down to a simple matter of weight and quite possibly the reason we didn’t see Lance Armstrong towing a little trailer filled with snacks and cold beverages.

My point—and yes I do have one—savvy cyclists and climbers are keenly aware of the weight they’re carrying and are always looking for ways to shave a pound here, an ounce there. They know the success of their endeavor depends on their ability to reach their goals without delay and to finish the course.

And so it is with you. The heavier the load, the more difficult the journey and the more trouble you’ll have reaching your goals. Heavy burdens make it difficult to keep up. They can make the journey of life more of a trial to be endured than an adventure to be enjoyed.

Review your load

Are you enjoying your journey or are you about to break under the weight of all of that “luggage” you’re trying to maneuver down the road of life?

Review your load. You can divide everything you are carrying into two categories: tangible and intangible. Among your tangibles might be too many possessions, heavy debt, dozens of credit accounts, mountains of clutter, an overcommitted calendar, and so forth. Under intangibles, you might need to list perfectionism, fear, doubt, guilt, worry, and regret.

Release what is not yours

It is possible you’re trying to manage burdens you were never meant to pick up in the first place. Take that big load of regret. It adds nothing to your life and only wears you down. The past is over, so lay it down and let it go.

Look your fears and doubts in the face and make a decision to leave them by the side of the road. And that trunk filled with worry? It’s not yours! Set it down. How about those debts? You may not be able to unload them all right now, but little by little as you pay them down, you gain more control over your life.

Renew your mind

Every day you chose your attitude and the way you will respond to every aspect of your life. Elaine St. James in her book, Simplify Your Life, says, “Wise men and women in every major culture throughout history have found that the secret to happiness is not in getting more but in wanting less.”

An endurance race is hard enough when you’re running light. But it’s far harder, and often impossible if you’re trying to run while lugging around extra stuff. Competitive long-distance runners lay aside everything except what’s absolutely necessary. That’s what we need to do too.

Even when you feel as though your life is completely out of control, you can be sure of this: If you want to soar high, you need to take a serious look at all the baggage you’re carrying. Then lighten up!

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  1. Barbara Jackson says:

    Perfect for today’s post: “Never be anxious about the next day, for the next day will have its own anxieties. Each day has enough of its own troubles.”​—Matthew 6:34.

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  2. Valencia Whitehead says:

    This was meant for me–truly a blessing–thank you! I’m in the midst of a purge bonanza to declutter my house. It’s SO difficult for me due to all the nostalgic ties to material things. I’ve decided to make a choice: More peace or more stuff; one will rule the other and I need more peace~

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    • Mary Hunt says:

      Great motto, Valencia. Hint: Take a picture of those things with nostalgic ties. You’ll preserve the memories without taking up any space! And all those digital photos will be in one place!

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