Can’t Fall Asleep? Try These 10 No-Cost Tricks—No Sheep Required!
Sleep—where do you go when you can’t fall asleep, but need it the most? You don’t need expensive gadgets or pricey sleep consultants to get those zzz’s. Try these simple, no-cost tricks that help reset your body’s natural rhythm, get rid of insomnia, and make your bedroom a place of true relaxation. Sleep better tonight, without the sheep!
Set a Sleep Schedule
Your body loves a routine. Go to bed and wake up at the same time every day—even on weekends. I know, I know. Saturdays are sacred. But hear me out: when your body knows what to expect, it starts shutting down naturally. Think of it as training your body to recognize the “sleep signal,” just like a toddler who knows it’s time for a nap (minus the tantrums, of course). The more consistent you are, the less your brain will fight you when it’s time to rest, and before you know it, your body will naturally start craving that bedtime routine—weekends included! Plus, you’ll wake up feeling more refreshed, even on a Saturday.
Ditch the Screens
Raise your hand if you’ve ever found yourself scrolling through cute cat videos or random TikToks at 11 p.m. (Guilty as charged!) While it’s tempting to indulge in that late-night scroll, here’s the truth: the blue light emitted by screens messes with your brain’s natural production of melatonin, the hormone responsible for making you feel sleepy. This means even though you’re physically tired, your brain is still wide awake and alert. So, what’s the solution?
Swap your phone for a good old-fashioned book, or—brace yourself—try doing absolutely nothing for a bit. It sounds simple, but letting your eyes rest and staring into the dark can actually signal to your brain that it’s time to wind down. If you’re worried about missing out, remember—those cute videos will still be there tomorrow.
Embrace the Power of a Wind-Down Routine
Start 30 minutes before you want to sleep. Turn off the TV, dim the lights, and do something relaxing: stretch, meditate, or sit quietly with your thoughts. If you want to take it a step further, try journaling for a few minutes to clear your mind of any lingering stress. A cup of herbal tea wouldn’t hurt, but we’re keeping it no-cost, so maybe just sip some water and pretend it’s chamomile. This simple habit helps signal to your body that it’s time to unwind, creating a peaceful transition from the busy day to restful sleep.
Breathe Like You Mean It
Deep breathing isn’t just a relaxation technique—it’s like giving your nervous system a big, calming hug. When you’re lying awake, restless, and your mind is racing, practicing deep breathing can be the reset you need.
Ban the Bedroom Chaos
Your bedroom is more than just a place to sleep—it’s your sanctuary, a space where your body and mind need to rest and recharge. That means it should feel more like a spa, not a storage unit.
Start by clearing the clutter. Make your bed inviting by fluffing pillows and adding a cozy blanket. If your windows let in streetlight brighter than Times Square, grab an old T-shirt or towel and MacGyver a blackout curtain. Fancy? No. Effective? Absolutely.
These small changes create a peaceful environment that signals to your body, “It’s time for rest.”
Channel Your Inner Goldilocks
Let’s talk temperature. The sweet spot for most people is between 60-67°F, but finding your perfect temperature is key. Too hot? You’ll be tossing and turning, kicking off blankets in frustration. Too cold? You’ll be curling into a ball, desperate for warmth. The goal is to feel just right.
And let’s be honest—if you share a bed with someone, achieving that perfect temperature might require a bit of stealth blanket-stealing tactics. (I’m not saying I’ve done this, but I’ve heard stories.)
Put Your Brain to Work—In a Good Way
Ever try not to think about something and suddenly it’s all you can focus on? Use this to your advantage. If you can’t fall asleep because your mind won’t stop racing, try a mental game that’s so simple it might seem a little silly, but it works wonders. Start by listing all the vegetables you can think of or counting backward from 300 in threes. The goal isn’t to finish; it’s to bore your brain into submission. When you focus on something repetitive and mildly challenging, your brain has less room to linger on anxieties or worries. Before you know it, you’ll be dreaming of carrots and kale.
Talk Back to Racing Thoughts
We’ve all been there—lying in bed, trying to drift off, but your brain decides to replay every embarrassing moment, like your middle school talent show performance (yes, that one). When those racing thoughts start taking over, here’s a simple trick: acknowledge the thought, thank it for its “valuable input,” and let it know you’ll revisit it tomorrow. It might sound a little odd, but hear me out—it works!
Try Progressive Muscle Relaxation (PMR)
This one’s like a workout, but without the sweating. Start by focusing on your toes, slowly tensing them for a few seconds, then releasing the tension. Work your way up through each muscle group: calves, thighs, abdomen, chest, hands, arms, and shoulders, all the way to your neck and face. The key is to tense each muscle group for about five seconds, then release and let go of all the tension.
The beauty of PMR is that it helps you become more aware of where you’re holding stress in your body, while the release creates a feeling of physical calm. It’s oddly satisfying—and by the time you get to your shoulders, you might be too relaxed to even finish.
Listen to the Quiet
Silence is often touted as golden, but we all know that too much silence can feel almost as disruptive as noise, especially when your mind starts amplifying every little sound around you. If you find yourself lying awake, listening to creaks in the floorboards or the neighbor’s dog barking at invisible ghosts, try a DIY white noise hack.
One of the easiest and most effective solutions is a good old fan—its steady hum creates a soothing background sound that can drown out distractions and help you drift off. But if you don’t have a fan handy, try humming softly to yourself. And no, this doesn’t make you weird; it makes you resourceful. Plus, it’s better than lying awake listening to the neighbor’s dog bark at ghosts.
A Bonus Trick: Get Up If You’re Stuck
Sometimes, trying harder to sleep is like trying to unsee that weird thing you saw at the grocery store—it just doesn’t work. If you find yourself tossing and turning for more than 20 minutes, trying to force sleep, it might be time for a change of scenery. Instead of lying there, frustrated, get up and do something calming. A quick stretch, a few minutes of journaling, or even folding a load of laundry can help reset your mind and body. The key is to engage in a quiet, relaxing activity that doesn’t require too much focus. This shifts your brain out of the stress of trying to sleep and allows it to ease back into a restful state.
So tonight, skip the sheep and try a few of these tips. Sweet dreams!
Question: What’s your go-to trick for falling asleep without spending a dime? Share your best no-cost sleep tip.















a tv ad for a local theater company once carried an ad for a play in which a very disagreeable teacher tells her little student to count to 100…alphabetically. i find that works quite well.
There’s a free podcast called “Nothing Much Happens” that I love. It’s a bedtime story for grown ups where nothing much happens. Just a quiet, calming story that does something to my brain to help me go right to sleep. It took probably a week or two but now as soon as I hear her voice and take 2 deep breaths at the beginning, I’m floating off to sleep. And I love wearing an eye mask, too, so my room is really dark.
I just pray. The Lord’s Prayer is very calming for me if I pray it thoughtfully. I also pray for people I know alphabetically and the Serenity prayer is calming too. It reminds me that everything is not about me-
so just relax girl!
Rain Sounds app on my iPad soothes me to sleep every night. With chronic fairly loud tinnitus, night time silence is not my friend
I could have used some of these last year when I had insomnia most of the year!!! I was under a lot of stress. I paid for the calm app, and I still have it, but I found it’s much easier to tell my google to play spa music, Zen music, massage or relaxation music. Heck, you can even ask it to play white, brown, or whatever color noise you want to hear. 🙂 I even tell it to stop playing in x minutes, hoping I’m asleep by then. Usually 30-60 min. time depending on how tired I feel I am.
We use brown noise instead of the fan I hated for so long!
a white noise machine costs money – but if you have a smart phone, it’s free with an app on your phone. i’ve used a serious sleep wind down routine for 11 years now to combat a serious sleep disorder. these hints do work. if you wake up in the night, have a small light, book of meditations, crossword puzzle book, and pen close at hand so you don’t need to get up unless it will disturb your partner to do so. just work on something to ‘reset’ for 15-30 minutes and you’ll go back to sleep.
I sometimes do the count backwards from 100 routine. I also go through the alphabet and try to name three girls names that begin with A, then three for B and so forth. And if that doesn’t do it, try boys names, that’s much harder. I never get all the way to Z!
I have a couple of go-tos…… In my head, recite the alphabet backwards, name all of the US presidents, name all of the US states by their two-letter abbreviation. Any of these will quickly cause slumber! Sweet dreams,