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The Frugal Lifestyle

I’ll admit I used to think frugality was a distasteful lifestyle forced upon the poor. I believed “frugal” was synonymous with never buying new clothes and dumpster diving under the cover of night.

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Boy, did I have a lot to learn. And learn I did—and continue to learn—that is the path to building wealth on any income.

I’d say the most fun I’ve had learning the fine art of frugality has been in reading The Millionaire Next Door: The Surprising Secrets of America’s Wealthy by Thomas J. Stanley and William D. Danko.

Webster’s defines “frugal” as behavior characterized by or reflecting economy in the use of resources. The opposite is “wasteful,” a lifestyle marked by lavish spending and hyperconsumption. Wealth has nothing to do with how much you earn, but what you do with it and how much you keep.

Ask most people to name a financially savvy American and a regular guy like 41-year-old Paul Kieffer, profiled several years ago in Money Magazine, wouldn’t even be in the running. At that time Kieffer lived in St. Charles, Minn. (pop. 3,735), spent about $38,000 a year to support his wife and two kids, drove a three-year old car he bought used, refused to sign-up for cable TV and worked six days a week at the local Red Wing shoe store. Oh yes. Kieffer also happened to own the store as well as five trailer parks in the St. Charles area, which gave him, at the time, a net worth of $1.4 million.

The reason folks like Kieffer are financially independent is because they live understated lifestyles. They live frugally. They aren’t showy but are careful how they spend and invest their money.

Stanley and Danko identify the self-imposed rules of self-made, wealthy Americans:

  • Live below your means. Reduce your spending as necessary so that you eventually save 15-20 percent of your annual income before taxes.
  • Meticulously budget your spending. Make a belt-tightening plan for everything you spend and do whatever it takes to stick to it.
  • Take on secured debt sparingly. Every dollar you pay in interest is one less you have to invest. Unsecured debt is not in the vocabulary of the authentically wealthy.
  • Participate in serious tax sheltering. Pay as little as legally possible in income taxes by maxing out on contributions to tax-deferred retirement accounts.
  • Launch a disciplined investment plan. More important than the amount of money you put away now is establishing the habit of regular investing.
  • Get help from a sharp fee-only financial advisor. Such a professional can assist with a wide range of financial needs for a flat fee. To find a good one, go to the National Association of Personal Financial Advisers website, NAPFA.org. Another good resource is Garrett Planning Network: GarrettPlanningNetwork.com.
  • Work hard—ideally in your own business. Salaried workers are pretty much limited to what an employer will pay them. Savvy business owners can grow their business and thereby increase their income.

Keep this in mind as you consider what role frugality will play in your household and in your life: Many of the people who flaunt the trappings of success often have little wealth. I’m told that Texans describe these people who live flashy lifestyles in a very simple yet colorful way: Big hat, no cattle!

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  1. Carol Bento says:

    My husband and I are in our Mid-70’s. We have followed ALL the steps listed in the “Frugal” article. We now live very comfortably in our retirement years. We have money in tax free investments. Only buy stuff on sale food clothes etc. We have taken a 12000 mile trip around the USA. Many Cruises, Alaska, Panama Canal and a 30 cruise to Hawaii and Tahiti. We have not had a car payment since 1966 or a house payment since 1987. We pay our credit card bills in total every month. It can be done. We both worked hard all our lives BUT our first priority was saving every month.


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