On Conquering Fear and Worry

Posted on by Mary Hunt in Mary's Perspective 22 Comments

Here’s a multiple choice question for you:

Q: What is Fiscal Cliff?

a) The site of the World High Diving Federation competition in Mazatlan, Mexico

b) F. W. Cliff’s given name, first chairman of the Federal Reserve Board

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c) A rock band made up of IRS agents laid off en masse for failure to meet their revenue quotas

d) A series of major policy changes that will happen automatically at the end of this year if the U.S. Congress does nothing

Fiscal Cliff

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With so much attention on the recent London 2012 Olympics, you may be leaning toward answer a).  Personally, I cannot imagine diving into water from any height, let alone from 20 meters, and starting out upside down and backwards. Than again, with the IRS so newsworthy, stranger things than c) could happen.

The correct answer, however, is actually d): A gathering storm made up of tax breaks expiring, automatic spending cuts beginning, the debt ceiling rising, and millions of taxpayers getting hit for the first time with something called the Alternative Minimum Tax (AMT).

One of these components is the payroll tax cut, which will automatically expire in December 2012. Since payroll taxes are deducted from wages every week, we will feel the effect immediately. We’ll experience higher withholding from our paychecks to cover this tax, if that cut is not extended or made permanent. Income tax rate increases only affect income starting in 2013, but if employers adjust withholding, the effects could come sooner.

If nothing happens to break this up, this fiscal cliff may plunge the country back into a recession.

The simplest way to prevent the fiscal cliff is to prevent its components from taking effect. But few want to do this. This would involve extending the Bush-era tax cuts again, extending payroll tax cuts that were supposed to be temporary, and making the AMT temporary “patch” permanent.

Dwelling on this drives me crazy because there is nothing I, or anyone but congress, can do about it. Just this morning I awoke to a fire-breathing dragon in my room with its three heads of worry, fear and anxiety. I wanted to pull the covers up over my head but needed to face that monster. While in the past I would try to wrestle my dragons throughout the day, I have adopted a new morning routine suggested by blogger Michael Hyatt (MichaelHyatt.com) to slay them before breakfast:

1. Read the Bible. I find comfort, resolve and personal power by reading scripture. “Fear not, for I am with you,” and “I will supply all your needs,” give me comfort, strength and power in the face of fear.

2. Exercise. Any kind of movement or exercise helps me manage stress. It is like plunging a sword into the heart of anxiety. Even a walk around the block is enough to change my perspective.

3. Listen to books. While I don’t have time to read fiction, small snippets from selected motivational books and inspiring biographies are the weapon I use to change my thoughts. I use Audible.com and Amazon’s Kindle Reader to download books to my phone and computer. Learning how others overcome challenges in their lives inspires me, filling me with hope, peace and joy, regardless of what’s going on in the world.

Question: Do you have a morning routine to slay your worry-fear-anxiety dragon? Discuss in the comments here.

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Posted on by Mary Hunt in Mary's Perspective 22 Comments
  • Leilani

    The first hour of my day is dedicated to reading my Bible, committing the day to God, and sending an encouraging word or two to some of my family and friends. That puts everything into the right perspective and fires me up to do my duties for the day. One day at a time!

  • Cindy Merrill

    While I’m waiting for the Lord to answer my prayer to give our leaders wisdom ( and I think that’s beyond even God’s power to grant, so I’m not counting on it): I am taking matters into my own hands and I refuse to be a victim of the US Government’s fiscal stupidity. There’s a parable about being prepared in the Bible- five wise virgins bought oil ahead of time, while the foolish ones did not: So I am putting away as much food and tools as possible to prepare for the inevitable disasters ahead. I am also learning how to forage and barter.

    • Grace Spence

      Nothing is beyond God’s power. He saved us when we were so unsaveable did he not? Nothing absolutely nothing is beyond his power.

  • MTHasslac

    I like what Leilani said that is a great idea – and does both the giver and the recipient good. I have taken to telling myself that God has given me a present of the present and I don’t want to waste my NOW with worries about later. so, when I can’t sleep because I can’t quiet my thoughts, I tell myself that and it helps to let me sleep. – Maggie

  • Elenita

    Yes, I do. I get up have a glass of water with a medicine that I have to wait 20 minutes before breakfast, so for that 20 minutes I go to my trademill and pray and/or meditate. It is the best spiritual and physical exercise for the morning. If the weather is good I do the walking outside.

  • Linda

    Last December my daughter in law gave us a book, Jesus Calling. It calls us daily to keep our eyes on Jesus as lover of our souls, protector, provider, healer. The scriptures with each reading are essential:revealing what the Word has to say; they magnify God’s presence/control; and remind us of His love for us. It has encouraged my sons, pastor, friends, and hair dresser. God has used it mightily in the lives that have been seeking Him, His presence and will in this unpredictable and scary world.

  • Doreen

    Hi Mary; I am usually up before anyone else in the house. As I sit with my morning coffee, it is my prayer time. I ask The Lord to take care of my loved ones and protect them. Than Jesus and I have a small talk, about anything going on in my life or something I need to face during the day. I feel so much better after this quiet time. Doreen

  • grace

    read the bible? you’re kidding, right- that’ll fix everything!

    • Wendy

      Reading the Bible helps to fix ME and give wisdom and guidance for these troubled times. Worrying is like praying for something you don’t want. Praying and reading the Bible is to bring worry and anxiety under God’s control. To have peace and confidence; not fear.
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    • Grace Spence

      It helps. It is the only book you can read that has the author at your side 24 7.

  • Linda

    Mary, I am up very early. I do not stay in bed thinking, but rather spend this time with my 2 cups of coffee watching a show of my choice. When this time is finished, I eat and begin with simple chores to order my life. I do a load of laundry, wash the dishes or empty and fill the diswasher, make a list of to dos for the day and put my make up on. After this I am fit to commute to work, while listening to an audio book or special CD from the library. At work I am so busy that I look forward to the commute home and a nice wind down evening!

  • Martha Hicks

    Things do look grim – extreme weather, fiscal problems worldwide, wars and rumors of wars, Israel rumbling, stymied Congress. I, too, read the Bible and simply don’;t know what to do except trust in God, the Man with a Plan — if only we knew what it is!

  • Katie

    Mary, I just wanted to say how thrilled I was to see that you follow Michael Hyatt as well… I receive both your and his blog posts, and am inspired by both!! Thank you!! …. and my stress reliever? being thankful !

  • Grammy D.

    Hi Mary, and all! I want to tell you how much I am encouraged to read of how many of you read your Bibles (also of how many of you exercise)! I am a Christian woman who has become disconnected from my Bible. Because I have an administrative (gift?), I get caught up in such thoughts as, “Should I start again on a Monday, or on the 1st of a month? Should I follow a Bible Reading Plan; one yr or two yr? Anyway, all of your thoughts give me hope. A couple of comments: @ grace, You’d be surprised how reading the Bible “will help”! @ Cindi M, NOTHING is beyond God’s power, and He is in control of everything, inc. our government. Prayer and reading scripture is all we have!

  • taminenator

    I am Catholic so I pray the rosary. For those not familar with this prayer, it is a contemplative prayer based on repetition of the same words over and over in a ten ducat cycle. I make an intention or question I want answered at the beginning and by the end I usually have the answer or I feel better. Meditation works in similar ways and so do chants. Muslims have a repetitive prayer on prayer beads that also helps banish worry. So do what you do and it will help!

  • diane

    Diane After reading all the comments reading the Bible, which I do, & i know that there many many more readers who do the same the Lord is smiling & we will be ok. It may take time be we will get there

  • Cheryl

    I don’t understand the bill up-roar over the payroll tax cut. This cut was only in effect for 2 years (2010 and 2011). This is the portion of our wages that goes to our Social Security account. We, as wage-earners, have been paying in the 6.2% for years. Obama cut that in half for a little relief and now everyone is going crazy thinking they are raising our taxes. No, it will bring it back to what it was in 2009. Remember – this is the money we (and our employer) are setting aside for our Social Security benefits in the future.

  • http://www.facebook.com/janiebow Janie Bowen

    I don’t know about other states but here in NC we have a website called the NC digital library ncdigital.lib.overdrive.com. You can actually download books to read or listen to and they disappear or “return” themselves after two weeks. Sometimes you may be on a waiting list for popular books but others are available instantly. Also, if you go on Amazon.com and search for free e-books they have about 200 or so free titles you can download to kindle or free download of kindle for PC.

  • Mark

    I can’t figure out if Mary is sick with worry that the tax cuts/spending cuts will _not_ be continued or that they _will_ be continued. Mary preaches individual fiscal responsibility yet it seems like Mary wants the tax cuts/spending cuts to continue. We all know that if your income is too low to support your basic cost of living that you need to find another source of income and you can’t become solvent by cutting spending.

    As an outside observer, it looks to me like the USA will become the next Greece if the voters swallow the tax cuts and spending cuts line… Good luck guys.

  • cindymerrill

    There is also a parable in the bible of a man going on a long journey- to his three servants he gave sums of money to use wisely- two servants obeyed, but the third buried his.So, the moral is, it’s better to do something than just sit and wait for the Fiscal Cliff to destroy whatever’s left.Start preparing now. Consider hanging plant baskets for indoor strawberries/cherry tomatoes, herbs, hot peppers,ect for friends and family on your Christmas list. You gotta start somewhere.

  • Scott

    So glad to see this feature. I believe that God knows that we do worry, so he gave us (humans) these words in the Bible to calm us. Keep up the good features.

  • Ann

    Looking for a copy of an article that was in your column in the Times Record about 1-3 weeks ago. It was about the new washing machine you had purchased. Thanks, Ann