Bounce Back from Bankruptcy

Posted on by Mary Hunt in Dear Mary 8 Comments

Dear Mary,

Please give me some pointers on bouncing back from bankruptcy. Will this have any effect on future employment opportunities? Henry, email

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Dear Henry,

Live on cash. Have only one credit card and if you use it pay it in full every month. Refuse all other offers of credit and take on no unsecured debt. Pay all of your bills early, never be late. Let nothing prevent you from saving 10 percent of your income. Many employers require credit reports from prospective employees—it’s the new character reference. Your bankruptcy will appear on your credit report for 10 years, there’s no way around that. This may adversely affect your job opportunities. But don’t despair. In time your credit report will reflect a radical change of behavior and that will speak volumes to anyone looking at it, even a prospective employer.

Dear Mary,

I’m tired of paying $8 or more for mascara that gets all dried out and clumpy after just a few weeks! What can I do to increase the useful life of mascara? Ellen, Pennsylvania

Dear Ellen,

I hear you! Choose mascara that has a thin brush and smaller opening because the smaller the opening, the less air can get in to dry out the product. Don’t “pump” the mascara wand when you use it because that forces air into the tube. Instead, gently twist the brush while pulling it from the tube.

For mascara that has already begun to dry out, close it tightly and set the tube in a cup of hot water for a few minutes to soften and revitalize the product. When you get down to the end, add a drop of saline solution or artificial tears and you’ll get one or two last applications (this will not work with waterproof mascara). My pharmacist advises that mascara should be thrown out after three months to avoid bacterial contamination. Saving a few bucks is not worth risking an eye infection.

Dear Mary,

I’m 39 years old and have bad credit. I’ve tried credit rebuilding, credit repair and I just can’t get out of the mud, so to speak. How do I build positive credit? I’ve resorted to pre-paid credit cards, pre-paid cell phones and just spending cash, but I’m still stuck. Mel, email

Dear Mel,

It just takes time to clean up a blemished credit report. Most negative items remain for seven years. My best advice is to stop worrying so much about your credit file. Instead, concentrate on paying your bills on time and staying away from new credit. A secured credit card is a great idea because if you do not abuse that account, it will be reported positively to the credit bureau. And what’s wrong with a pre-paid cell phone? I advise everyone to do that. Unless you are looking to buy a home in the near future, about the only thing you can do with a good credit report is qualify for more credit—something you probably should stay away from, at least right now anyway.

Question: If you’ve survived a bankruptcy or bad credit, what’s your advice to Henry and Mel? Share your thoughts here.

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Posted on by Mary Hunt in Dear Mary 8 Comments
  • Donna

    Dear Mary,

    No advice for Henry or Mel, Mary, but a further question for you. If, in Henry’s case, his bankruptcy will have an impact on his job opportunities (“…it’s the new character reference”), would not Mel’s bad credit report also reflect on her character when applying for a job? Or, is it just the appearance of a bankruptcy that indicates bad character?

    While we’re at it, the current economy has caused many who would never have had a bankruptcy as part of their life stories to find themselves having to file. In many of these cases (take mine, for example), a bankruptcy is the closing chapter of the collapse of the real estate market. Sound investments and careful planning simply did not take into account this seemingly worldwide troubling financial outcome. Even though my husband and I did not have all our eggs in one basket, and we had substantial capital, the effort to fulfill our promises to pay the mortgage companies was derailed with a grim diagnosis that my husband fought vainly for a year and a half. It took not only his life, but all the rest of our savings, my job, and our house.

    Our full time jobs during this time were dealing with his illness and treatment. Had I not made myself available to him, he would not have survived even that long, and there was always the chance he would recover, fully. That illness took not only his life, but all the rest of our savings. I find myself at the brink of bankruptcy now, and needing a job. Everything bad on my credit report is relating to mortgages…no credit card debt. If this and a bankruptcy is an indication of bad character to employers, what am I, at 62, to do? I realize this is not your problem to solve. I just wanted you to know that there are depths to this financial crisis many of us find ourselves in that have nothing to do with bad character or poor money management. But, the human resources departments will simply delete our job applications because of our credit reports, won’t they?

    Your efforts to teach us fiscal responsibility are SO important and so helpful. Thank you!

    • http://twitter.com/DebtProofLiving Mary Hunt

      Donna … Mel’s poor credit could indeed come into play if she is vying for a job. The whole thing is highly subjective when a potential employer is considering these things. Generally a bankruptcy carries a great deal more weight than say a late payment or two.

      I am so sorry for what you’ve endured. To have lost your husband through all of this is hardly more than I can bear to think about. Life is tough and I sure don’t have all the answers. I hang onto the things that I know will never change.

      I pray that you are getting back on your feet and moving forward one day at a time.

  • http://twitter.com/DebtProofLiving Mary Hunt

    Donna … Mel’s poor credit could indeed come into play if she is vying for a job. The whole thing is highly subjective when a potential employer is considering these things. Generally a bankruptcy carries a great deal more weight than say a late payment or two.

    I am so sorry for what you’ve endured. To have lost your husband through all of this is hardly more than I can bear to think about. Life is tough and I sure don’t have all the answers. I hang onto the things that I know will never change.

    I pray that you are getting back on your feet and moving forward one day at a time.

  • Michelle

    A good credit report is extremely important in today’s world. Not only does it matter in securing a job and qualifying for a place to rest your head, if you don’t have good credit you can expect to pay MUCH more in insurance rates. Like social media, it is all integrating together and you can no longer keep areas of your life separate financially. And rarely does an actual person make the decision – it’s all mechanical and we’re slowly becoming just a number….a risk factor, if you will. Now, more than ever, it’s important to debt proof your life! Thank you, Mary!

    • http://twitter.com/DebtProofLiving Mary Hunt

      You are so right, Michelle. This is something that many people don’t understand until it’s too late. I have to admit that I hate the whole credit report/score thing in our society. It feel so “Big Brother” like to me. But it is what it is and like taxes, we have no choice bit to comply and to do the right thing.

  • Donna

    Mary…one step at a time, as He shows it…as always. And that’s how He has carried us through. :D

    • http://twitter.com/DebtProofLiving Mary Hunt

      Please let me know if there is any way that I can be of help or encouragement to you.

  • http://www.facebook.com/jeannie.kinney.3 Jeannie Kinney

    To Ellen’s mascara question: The reason mascara dries out so quickly is because it is made with formaldehyde as a preservative. I sold cosmetics for a world-known cosmetic company for 22 years and our mascaras do not use any formaldehyde. It dries out your lashes as well, which is why women complaining of lashes breaking off. Mary’s tips were right on: do not pump your mascara, but twist the wand inside. Check the labels when buying cosmetic products. Your higher quality brands usually don’t use formaldehyde. My mascara brand is good for at least six months due to the quality. Good luck.